A practice, not a curriculum.
Our work is organized in three concentric circles. Foundations introduces the language and felt-sense of secure bonds. Practice convenes small cohorts for live skills work with certified facilitators. Living the Work is an ongoing peer community that meets monthly to keep the practice alive between formal trainings.
Browse the Foundation library by tier below, or scroll to all other workshops in our community.
The Foundation library is our original work.
Three tiers — Foundations, Practice, and Living the Work — form a single learning arc designed by the foundation. Other workshops in the community build alongside this spine.
The three-tier framework.
Designed as a progression. Most people start at Foundations and stay involved in Living the Work indefinitely.
Foundations
Open to anyone. No prerequisites. Where the practice begins — research-backed conversations and skills you can apply the same week.
Foundation workshops in this tier
In development
Seven Conversations in a Day
A one-day couples workshop guiding partners through seven research-backed conversations — distilled into a self-supporting, efficient format. Innovative, AI-assisted prompts and structured supports help couples move quickly and successfully through the work in a single day.
Practice
For those continuing the work. Pair-practice, supervised reps, and targeted exercises with certified facilitators.
Foundation workshops in this tier
Foundation material for this tier is in development. Check back soon.
Living the Work
An ongoing peer container for alumni. Keep the practice alive between formal trainings. Optional, ongoing.
Foundation workshops in this tier
Foundation material for this tier is in development. Check back soon.
All other workshops.
Offerings from our facilitators and partner community. These build alongside the Foundation library.
Foundations of Secure Bonds
A weekend immersion in the language, felt-sense, and daily practice of attachment-secure relating.
Repair: The Conversation You Postponed
A focused day on the architecture of relational repair, for couples, family members, and close friends.
Living the Work: Monthly Practice Circle
An ongoing monthly cohort for alumni. Keep the practice alive between formal trainings.